So here’s the story, my boyfriend of almost 5 yrs, well ex-boyfriend cheated on me with my supposed  best friend.  They started out just talking on the phone, this was hidden from me of course, then i guess they got closer and when I started to find out about them talking too much and started putting my foot down it was too late. So here’s what I know happened, one night I was sleeping in my bed while he was on his computer upstairs, I guess they had been talking and she came and picked the bastard up so he says that they were just talking and then sexual tension came about and she ended up giving him head while she took her pants off and he fingered her AND  im pretty sure they kissed and made out then he comes back home washes up and gets in the bed w/ me… well about a month and half goes by and she not him, finally tells me what happened and I am absolutely dieing inside b/c I dont know what to do b/c they were my world but they betrayed me, lied to me and snuck around behind my back. I’ve never been this hurt in my entire life, i really felt like I could trust him and that he would never do anything like this to me, but he did. I didn’t expect it out of her either, well I knew she was a bit slutty but I didn’t think she’d  do anything w/ my man. and what really sucks is I hung out w/ them numerous times after, not even knowing. So here’s the deal, I don’t know what to part of me wants to try to forgive him and be w/ him the rest of my life, but the other half knows it will always be in the back of my head haunting me and not letting me sleep, if I may be able to forgive, but I’m not sure I can forget . So I ask myself is he worth the pain, or should I start fresh w/ someone new… this is his first offense but he should of never had one to begin with. I feel sick and I wish they didn’t ruin my life, I was so happy

I’ve been debating on what to do with my hair, I think I need some help. What do you think is sexier long hair or short hair? I’m not sure what to do and I’m looking for some advice. so I guess you could think of this as a poll